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Sunday, April 1, 2018

An Unfortunate trek called Pin Parvati Pass Trek

Most of the times writing travelogues is tedious but is still exciting as I remember all the fun things happened at the trip or trek and write it as juicy and funny as it can get. This time even before we started to Bhuntar from Chandigarh, Vani and Paras made fun of me for taking videos on Gopro.
They said we will make sure you post the vlog and write about the trek. I promised them! I will make the VLOG and I will post the trek details. Unfortunately, I am writing this only for Vani’s sake and will make the VLOG for her, dedicating this to a true mountaineer who sacrificed her life thinking about the fellow trek mates and gave up her life in the quiet mountains of Himachal in the arms of Parvati Pass.

It was on the 11th Of August '17 early morning 6am Niranjan and I left from my flat at Begur road in a taxi and at the same time, Vani left from Whitfield in a KIAS. She rang to us and said she has got avalakki from home for us so we need not worry about breakfast. All excited about the tough trek of our lifetime , we could not wait to meet her at the airport. Our flights were different as she had booked for the trek much before we both had to get early bird discount!. We could not meet her at the airport. Our flight was via Hyderabad and hers was via Mumbai, she reached Chandigarh by 1.45 pm and our flight got delayed by 1 hour 30 minutes. We texted into the Watsapp group we had created that we will reach Chandigargh by 3pm. Paras, another friend was to join us at Chandigargh. Vani waited for us at the Chandigarh airport and the moment we saw each other, we hugged each other in excitement. So thrilled were we. We had arranged for a cab from Chandigarh to Bhuntar which was the trek start point.

We picked Paras from Sector 49 and drove to University to have late lunch. As though we had not seen food, we gobbled 4 or 5 parathas and Lassi in University campus and started to Bhuntar. On our way we stopped for Tea and Pee break and later for dinner. We reached Bhuntar by 12pm and desperately needed sleep as we were tired of the journey and had to start early morning for the trek.

Day 2 (12th August) : After devouring Parathas for breakfast, we waited at the bus stop for the trek guide from Bikat Adventures to pick us.  It was 5 of us from starting point and the other 2 were to join us at  Kheerganga which is the next point. We waited for Rekha who reached just that morning at Bhuntar. While we waited, she remembered that she forgot to pack the flip flop and we went for a small town shopping for the flip flop. She wanted to go for Blue, I said YELLOOOOWWW!! She smiled and took yellow. Back at the bus stop, we sat down and took as many selfies as we could! Every time she telling me that she looks sexier than I am. I denying. Meanwhile a woman who held a Godess Durga statue and some incense sticks came to us, expecting some donation. I gave Rs 10 from Niranjan’s pocket generously !! Then started the verbal tease.. Vani said I will be getting some extra blessings because of the donation! They made fun of me that there will be an extra globe of oxygen around me to save me from AMS!. They said Goddess will shower me with O2 for the trek. As light as we could take AMS that moment, my whole life turned after a few days!! Even now the word AMS gives me shivers while I type it!!



We started from Bhuntar at 9am along the beautiful valleys of Manali- Kulu - Manikaran. On our left were deep and vast Valleys and on the right high mountains. Drive was not at all smooth. Teasing each other , laughing and chattering we reached a place where we halted for a small break. Our destination was a small Dam near Barshaini over the Parbati River at Pulga. The place is called Tosh from where the trek starts. We distributed our packed lunch among ourselves. It was sandwich, chocolate and a fruit drink in tetra pack. Started out as a moderate trek, it was about 12.30pm. This was about 13km trek on day 1 and its a steep climb into a beautiful mountain in Parvati pass. Chilling weather and quite crowded for a popular place “Kheerganga" that is, some of us were bit slow since it was day 1 and after a rocky journey from Bhuntar to Barshaini.  Vani and Paras were on the run. As much as their expertise was , they were quite fast in climbing. We were catching up and stopping by for photos and water often. I was not prepared for the trek. I had time, but I had personal matters to attend. With mothers health deteriorating, I had to visit her frequently. Mother was in ICU for almost 3 months. There was no time to plan a workout or even go for a walk during these sleepless nights and tiring days. I was to cancel this trek. Mother was out of ICU but still not fully recovered. She is surviving stage 4 Lung cancer. I was skeptical about my Trek to Parvati pass. Slowly as I saw mother recovering, I was bit hopeful. I Called up Vani then and said I did not know what to do. I also needed a break from continuous hospital environment, but I was not all that confident to be away without network and reachability for 10 days. She suggested me to drop the plan and being home for mother was important. Even cancelling flight would not return me anything , for we had booked much earlier and a flat 2500 cut on that was returning hardly any money. So I did not cancel the flight. Few weeks later mother got discharged and her health was better. Thats when I decided to go ahead with the plan and put trust in God.

Since I was not at all prepared for the trek, my pace was quite slow, but was catching up. We stopped at Rudranag for lunch and the place somewhat scared me. I am not a person who fears water, but never in my life I have seen a river that fierce !! The loud noise of water fall widening as it flows towards the bottom of mountain from the top was too harsh. When we stood on top of the bridge underneath which the river flew, my legs started shivering. I was scared. I felt the bridge may break any time. Quickly we took pics and started to climb. We finished the trek by 4.30 pm and reached Kheerganga. This is a very popular place. A lot of people Trek to kheerganga to enjoy the weather, pictorisque beauty , hot water spring and a “herbal” remedy which every person in Manali(Malana) comes for!!  Many small shacks as you may see in Goa to sit and chill, with very loud trance music selling hot food and beverages with Bob Marley printed / painted all around seen all over the mountain covering entire place. We pitched our tents and went up to the hot springs to freshen up. First time did I see the hot springs and the place was so divine. This place was partitioned for men and woman and strictly no naked bath was in-scripted all over. We went to the woman side and dipped our feet into the hot water. It was a pool of hot water as well as the pipes were flowing with hot water. We saw there was a cave right behind these springs and I had heard a friend say that there was a Baba who had left all his things in this cave and locked the cave. There was no way we could get into the cave. I was cold and did not feel like going higher. Paras, Vani and Rekha climbed to visit the temple on top. I Waited for them to come down. We went down and met two more trek participants Deepak and Ateeq who came directly to Kheerganga. After tea and snacks we spent some time inside the tents before we hit the sack.

Day 3 (13 August ’17) Next morning was the trek from Kheerganga to Tunda Bhuj. Trail was through a really thick forest both the sides while Parvati river flows along the Spiti valley with fiercely. Along this trail were all the tiny strawberries that grew, we plucked and picked a handful and ate. This was the place of my great fall! I was talking and there was a tree root on which I kept my heel not so firmly! I wonder what kind of logic must have been running in my head to place a feet that way, a single feet on a big tree root and there I slipped down, rolled twice and directly into a bushy support which if not there would have been a fatal fall for me.  I sank there , the roots and shrub so strong to bear my weight(Since I had the backpack also, it had added to the weight), I saw people on top looking at me petrified. I wanted to laugh because at that moment I didn’t know the severity of the fall. If the shrubs weren’t there, it would have been worse for me since it goes directly into the valley few hundred feet down below!!
Some porters and Paras helped me up.. When I came up , I got shoutings from Niranjan and Vani. I was a bit careless until then, as I didn’t gauge the possible outcome. I made fun, said that the 10 rupee I gave to the holy-woman holding Durga idol saved me! 
We stopped for snack break and took a group pic here.An elderly shepherd man was also walking along with us.  Day 2 was also moderate trek. The place around was lush green, this probably was the last stretch of greenery. 

We camped at Tunda Bhuj and after pitching tents and having refreshments, Vani, Niranjan, Rekha and I walked to the other side where the other team had camped. We returned as it was getting very cold and dark too. We took lot of selfies on top where there was a small shrine and saw a Baba residing there.
We had dinner by 8pm and called it a day. 

Day 4(14th August)  was the trek from Tunda Bhuj to Thakur Kua. We took packed lunch and started by 8am as per the plan.
This day is quite challenging as we crossed a landslide and a tricky section. Crossing this patch was quite scary and looked tough for me. After crossing, the place was little rocky but not too hard.  We stopped to eat packed lunch and it was very sunny. Vani hadn’t eaten good since the trek had started. She said that is usual for her in Himalayas. She was tired. It was strange for I was relatively newer in these mountains and she had done close to 15 Himalayan treks. I assumed it could have been the lady problem she had that made her weak. It was a flat land and we camped. We played card games inside Kitchen tent as it was very windy. We had dinner, Vani again had only some sweet and very little rice with green chutney that Aunty had made for her.

We started day 5 (15th August’17) on time and this was quite tough a trek as compared to all other days. Day 4 was Thakur Kua to Odi Thatch. For what I read from the net it was to be the most thrilling day of our lives. And yes for sure. It was the most adventurous climb on the day. It was 14th August 2017, I was high on energy. I was scared as well since there was absolutely no practice.There are 2 bridges which we cross and that was the main attraction of the day. Vani seemed little dull and she was little slow. I had gained some momentum and was faster! May be I was too excited. It was a feather in my cap, this trek, since I had been planning it for about 3 years and always felt I am too novice for this much adventure.

Pandu Pul (one of a lifetime experience to cross)
The first bridge is Called the Pandu Pul-1, it was very scary and a risky affair. Porters were struggling to get all of us safely cross the ridges.From here the rocky and risky patches started. All of us successfully crossed this Pul and then continued to ascend.  Vani asked trek lead if she can offload her luggage. Sarthak was looking for a porter who could carry extra luggage. It was not so easy because this was rolling camp and they were carrying everything from participant tents, kitchen tents, toilet tents , grocery, stove etc. He said he will arrange after a while.
At this point I was quite tired and wanted to rest. 
But there was no chance since the boulders could roll down and hurt the fellow trekkers following trail. From here it seemed that Vani and Paras were a bit slower.  They took fewer more breaks but were catching up. We then started to second boulder. This one  is called Pandu Pul-2. This is a higher boulder which is right across the Parvati river. There is a steep climb of about 30 ft and then decline. We climbed and got down this tricky boulder carefully.  As we stopped a bit to rest and take group photos , she was least interested. She had closed her eyes and was resting. When we begun to leave, the porters dropped the kerosine drum hard and it started leaking. They quickly fixed it with whatever plastic and cloth materials they had and we started our climb again. 
We stopped for lunch. She threw entire packed lunch from her Tupperware. She ate a small piece of chocolate and slept on my lap for some time. After this it was complete desert and "walk in park" as Sarthak called it. We went to the beautiful meadow in Odi Thatch. It was so vast and flat. We happily pitched tents. Vani and I had tea and some snacks. 
I was jumping in joy and could not contain myself as the toughest part was done. This meadow was heaven!! The ground was carpeted with all sorts of tiny flowers.  I pulled her and said come lets do macro photography. She laughed! Said she was least interested in photography but still would come along. Somehow after I showed her about 8 different flowers, she got excited. Said she would never bother to see such small flower in Himalayan trek and thanked me. We were talking all things and I said this trek is a breather for me as I had been running at the hospital for about 4 months and it was very stressful. I also said how scared I was about mothers health. She said it is hard to lose loved ones, that she also fears loss of loved ones. I dont know why but after that we spoke quite a lot about death!! We went inside tents to play Uno for some time. We had hot dinner to call it a day. She had eaten a bit with Chutney pudi that Niranjan had got. Everyone gave their share of Kheer to her so that she eats some food.

This was our last campsite. Next camp was supposed to be at Mantalay.
Day 6th (16th August '17), she took too long to come out of tent.We were having hot tea and then woke her up. She came with a swollen face. It was much more compared to her usual face cut. Sarthak took Oxymeter reading and it was very low. She could hardly walk and complained giddiness. Sarthak called all participants and declared that the trek will be aborted and we should decline down immediately. We started packing our bags and saw Vani and Sarthak were talking something. She must have thought about all of us and convinced him to wait for longer. After some time , Sarthak took Oxymeter reading and it showed some progress. Since we had one buffer day, we decided to use that day. We walked around and sat in open to get acclimatized. She was not too good nor too bad. She spoke slowly and she seemed very tired. We kept giving her liquids and after lunch she slept outside as it was not good to sleep inside tents in high altitude. (As per trek lead) 

After the acclimatisation walk, when we rested.

By 3pm we took her inside tent. We sat by her playing cards and she was not much interested. She just rested. I kept giving her warm water to rehydrate. I don’t really know if I over did it. I did everything that was told to me so that she gets better some how. I am guilty of not having any knowledge of AMS symptoms and the remedy.  Maharaj made some Upma and I fed her that too.  He said we may have to take her down at night.  It is out of his experience. He was the only senior person there. All others were very young, don’t even ask the porters age, I don’t remember seeing even a single man over 20 years age there! Sarthak had given her diamox at around 3.30-4pm, but I recently discovered it takes at least 24 hours for it to work. He also gave another pill of which I don’t remember the name. It was supposed to make breathing easy.
Nothing seemed to have helped. They decided to take her down to a lower altitude. 4 porters, Sarthak and Vani were to descend down. As it was already getting dark and the path was risky for all others to descend, they asked us to trek down the first thing in the morning. All were petrified. I prayed to Sai that she should be fine by morning once they go to lower altitude. I got into the tent and tried to slip on to my thermals, but the oxygen was so low and I took about 30 minutes to wear my thermals with a lot of difficulty. I could sense that discomfort myself although I did not do any physical work other than wearing the thermals.  It was late at night (may be 2.30 Am) and I was not getting sleep. I saw a light around the tent, must have been one of the trekkers who went to use toilet. I too wanted to go out, but waited for a while for him to go. I waited for 30 minutes, the light was still moving. I came out of the tent to see Paras walking with his water bottle , who was not getting sleep either . He had terrible head ache.  I gave him a balm I usually keep next to me all the time inside my sleeping bag. He applied and said he won’t be going to sleep any sooner as it was difficult for him. He said he ll move around for longer and asked me to go back to sleep. I used toilet and tried to go back to sleep. I was having hard time to sleep. At around 4 am there was too much noise outside. There were few dogs (which you will see in pics ) and they were circling around some place crazily. It was very scary. Half sleep, Vanis health and the dogs acting weird scared me even more. I just wanted to run away some place. I wanted to get out of the mountains. I fear a lot of unknown things. There has been several unexplainable incidents which has made me timid. There won’t be any logic for such things. I was very scared, I put my head outside tent to see outside, it was false dawn, there was so much light of the stars and sky was spread with zillion stars and even that scared me. I saw a white mountain far away and that looked monstrous. I went back and did not want to think about anything else. My head and heart was pounding.
This was the last picture of Vani from my camera.
Day 7 (17th August 2017) morning, first thing I asked Naresh-the trek guide, if he has heard anything from them. Naresh said if anything unfortunate had happened, two porters would have come back. I was bit relieved. I wanted to run down. We started trekking down from Odi Tatch to Thakur Kua. We had to go through the same tricky patches. Our breath was heavy. I wanted to go down and hug her and say everything is alright now. I wanted to shout at her for not eating through the trek and being fussy. We always looked up at her, for this was her may be 15th or 16th Himalayan trek. She knew her body needs well and if she said she didn’t want to eat, she was okay not eating and surviving on sweets and fried things. (I remember previous evening she said she would have eaten had they provided Bhajiya / Bajji)
At a certain point we saw two porters were coming back!!! I don’t want to say a thing here!! My mind never suspected a thing. I just thought they are here to help us. Some one came and took my backpack. As it is I didn’t want to get rid of it since it was light. But he took. I asked porter how she is, he said she ate and she has been feeling well. And then we went another 1 or 2kms. We saw Naresh had reached earlier and Sarthak was there with porters. We were asked to sit down. I didn’t want to assume anything here either. Then Sarthak broke the news. She had left us and reached the place she loved the most. She had taken her last breath in her beloved place. She had tried to book this trek twice before, the first time she booked, she had an encounter with elephant and had to cancel. Then again she booked this for second time, and this time uncle(her dad) had to go through knife and get his leg amputated. Finally she came here and went into the stars and forever. It was a shocker for all of us. I held Niranjan and cried. I had no clue what was happening. In few minutes I forgot what happened and there was a short period of memory loss. Then again, after few minutes I remembered she had gone and cried. All were hurrying to get us down the mountain before anything else happens. Her body was kept in a tent. I did not dare to go. I did not and could not have seen her. I was going psyched. Looked around, everything was looking white and washed out. I saw Niranjan went to see her.. I collapsed by the rock again and wanted to sit there. Thakur Kua had swallowed my beloved friend. She was sleeping in my lap previous evening and today she was gone. Forever. She was not there. No one knew how to react and what to do. Aiyo!! I was screaming and crying and then in minutes I don’t know what was happening. I remember the elderly man (cook) , holding my hand and dragging, I was running behind him. Everything was white. White tall grass, white mountains , white sky and l was running. Whenever tired I would stop and then the reality would hit right across the face. They did not have a stretcher and may be she would have survived if they had. She should have listened and gone down the previous day. They put the body on a stretcher and trekked along. I could not see that stretcher with the maroon blanket covered. I was not able to look at her body.. When she came closed I turned towards Niranjan and held him. I could not have seen that. All my senses and emotions were shut. Not able to buy the fact. 

We somehow made it to Tunda Bhuj. We were all tired as we had already covered over 20kms. We were to camp at Tunda Bhuj to continue the trek next morning. It was getting dark. We camped there, all numb , not able to digest the fact. We could not believe fate had gotten us there in that condition. We spent night, just wanted to run again in the morning.  They had taken the body down to nearest hospital by then(Mandi) No network whatsoever, we had to trek down few kms more to get bsnl network. 

Day 8 (18th August), 7am we started to descend to Kheerganga. At around 10.30 am we got faint signal. We were almost close to Kheerganga.Already terrified, and all more feared I prayed God that there was no news from Home. I was not reachable for 5 days and last I had spoken with mother was when we left from Bhuntar. I just waited for all sms to be delivered and took a sigh of breath since there was no sms from home. And now was the other challenge, whom to call??!! Who knew what had happened? We saw there were few messages from friends asking if were okay, due to the tragic landslide that had taken many lives before two days! I called up mother as I just wanted to hear her voice.  The moment she picked up call and said hello I took a sigh of breath and at that state of mind I thanked my stars that I could hear her voice. We then called another friend to know how much of info they had. It seemed like Bikat Adventures had called her family and said she was serious and to start immediately. We spoke with her brother in law Sujith who now is a very good friend, who informed that Usha(Vani’s sister) and himself are starting from there. We informed that it is better he comes alone and not with the family since it might be too hard for them to take. We spoke with Sayeesha who was also about to start with Sujith, although he had never met Vani even once! We said we will be here until all the formalities are done, so it is okay if Sujith comes alone. We trekked down from Kheerganga and by then, everyone had known about the incident in and around Kheerganga. They were identifying us as the batch which went to the trek where the mishap had happened. Guys from Bikat wanted to evacuate us as soon as possible. It was getting sunnier and we had to trek down to Tosh from Kheerganga. We reached the Dam at Tosh by 4pm and there was a jeep waiting for us. It was a 3 hour drive from there to the nearest town Mandi and then Kulu. We reached Kulu by 6.30 pm and reached a hotel. Niranjan and I were on constant calls with friends updating them. We waited for Sujith to join. Sujiths flight was to reach Bhuntar at 6 am on the 19th August. Once he arrived we explained him everything to our knowledge. 

Day 9 We went to the Mortuary at 9am to see the body. She was lying on the slab of mortuary with hands folded across the chest. Niranjan, Sujith and I entered the mortuary not being able to believe what we were seeing. Within moments our lives had changed. We were there staring at our dear friend as she lay there motionless and gone beyond reach. We cried and cried at what was lying ahead of us and we were helpless. I did not know what was next. I am sure Niranjan and Sujith were also in the same state not knowing what next. We had not informed the family yet. I am sure there were all prayers and poojas happening at home for her safe return and we only wished that it worked! It was late. It was very very late. The body had turned to purple and when I touched it was colder than ice. The police man asked me to check if there were any suspicious wounds! I checked all her body, there was nothing. But there was a friend in there just two days ago who was now no more ! Bikat wanted us to hurry and get out of HP before they get into any trouble. An advocate from Bikat was rushing me to go to DC office and get some permission letter. I lost it on her and shouted. She was there just so that we don’t get any time to think and react!!! 

We first met DDMA Kullu to see if they can arrange airlift till Delhi or Chandigarh to catch Bangalore flight. They said the CM himself had come in cars since the Chopper had broken down. Mrs Harkanchan Kaur from DDMA Kullu was very helping. She was available throughout and ran around to hurry up the process. At Kullu Govt Hospital, there were 2 Anästhesist  who would not do post mortem. So they asked us to take the body to Mandi. Meanwhile we had to vacate the hotel, and also we had to take a certificate for the coffin that the coffin was fit to be used in aircrafts. While Sujith went with the body to Kullu, Niranjan and I checked out the hotel, hired a cab from Kullu to Mandi at 3pm. We  got the coffin certificate on the way and went towards Mandi. Coffin was already smelling since it was 3 days post death. And the smell was inside us, in our mind and body too. We could not even drink water in the condition that we were in, leave alone eating. Already having trekked 80kms , Niranjan and I had totally worn out physically, on top of that, losing her had made us totally blank mentally. We were just moving around without being able to think anything. It was just three bodies running around here and there with her dead body. It was 6.30pm when we reached Mandi Govt hospital. The cab driver was so understanding and waited for us in the cab with our luggages since we did not have any place to keep all our luggage. We arranged ice for the body and got a room for ourselves. There was not even a single moment to mourn or cry. We had got herculean energy to run around do everything without a single morsel of food or water for days. We waited for the sun to rise and get the postmortem done the next morning.

Day 10(20th August). The doctor came to do the postmortem and asked for some materials from us, like white fabric, salt and few jars to keep the samples. Niranjan and Sujith got the required things. After about 1 hour, it was done along with embalming and then the doctor asked Niranjan and Sujith to help move the body back to the coffin.  As if what was happening around was not enough, the guys went to keep the body back and returned crying! They saw her in such gory state God Forbid this should not happen to any friends or relatives! They went to a corner and cried. I could understand but was helpless, No one was ready to help here. For the policeman it was a daily thing and the guy from Bikat was ALSO THERE.
We asked Ambulance driver for the help and got none. He was rude and unruly. He did not want to lose the Sunday and wanted to get rid of us soon. Somehow after the PM we moved the body to the ambulance and started to Chandigarh.  Since there was no space in Ambulance for us and luggage , we hired a cab.  Niranjan and I in cab and Sujith in ambulance.While we were travelling to Chandigarh, the coffin was moving around a lot inside the ambulance and we had to stop at a place for ropes. He gave us tea and made us sit.
Sujith was uncomfortable inside the Ambulance for obvious reasons. He was alone there with the body. Hence after a while Niranjan joined him. Fortunately , this cab driver was very kind, he also had his wife along and they were driving to Chandigarh to attend a funeral of a relative.
Since it was a Sunday there were no flights from Chandigarh,  we had to go to Delhi to board the flight and the Ambulance driver clearly refused from dropping us to Delhi. We hired another ambulance. Kind Cab driver agreed to drop us till Delhi. In Chandigarh, we moved the Coffin from one Ambulance to another. The other ambulance was very small and there was no space to sit for Sujith. There were 2 people already in front seat.Hence Sujith joined us in the cab. The other ambulance was faster and they went way ahead of us. We reached Delhi at around 1am Monday morning (21st August) and another man in Jeep came to help(!!) us. He said he knows Cargo and can help in moving the body easily. All he wanted was some money. He asked Rs 5500 for the help! 
We politely denied and asked him to go. He was rude and still took Rs 500 to go. At the cargo, the next flight was at 6.30am and we showed them all the papers. We realised that the police had forgotten to put the seal at Kullu!!! Airlines directly denied to take the body. They said go to the Delhi police station to get the seal. At 2 am Sujith and I entered Police station while Niranjan was in cab looking after luggage. It was a horrifying experience to visit police station at that odd hour. There were no female police. The inspector made me sit in some room and asked Sujith to meet someone else. It was very scary. I could not believe I was in Delhi and also In Delhi police station at 2am!! Police said they cannot change or put a seal on the reports, but they can attest a record saying we seem genuine. Inspector called Kullu Policeman to enquire and Kullu police Said that he had left the seal in Kullu and gave the reports in Mandi which was 3 hours away. We finally managed to get the reports and then went back to the Cargo. While all this was happening, the Ambulance drivers so kind, were quietly waiting all night long with the Coffin inside. They showed utmost patience, they need not have waited for us, they could have simply left the Coffin n gone, but they were there till 5am until we got all the records from police. 
We paid the Ambulance guys and thanked them, and we were now little (more or less) sure that the Coffin will be sent this time! But to our shock, we found that the coffin was leaking and airlines denied to take the coffin since it could infect all the other passengers on that flight. And also, since the body was in the same Coffin even before PM, the box was smelling!! We now had another challenge. By this time, we thought Vani had no intentions of going back to her place. She loved Manali so much she took her last breath there. Our plan was to finish the trek on 21st August and stay in Zostel Manali, which was her most favourite place. She would say that she wanted to roam about the streets while I wanted to party there for 3 days before we boarded the flight back to Bangalore. Manali was the place she always wanted to go and her wish was fulfilled. She took her last breath on the 17th and somehow with all the things going down south, we were still in that region for 3 days even after her demise.

At 5am , with Airlines denying to take the leaky Coffin, we 3 were totally devastated. We were giving up. After having come this far, we were still not able to send her body to her parents. We had failed despite of all efforts. It is not a joke to carry a body by road covering a distance of 500kms! We somehow brought the body and here we were again helpless. Airlines employees were kind too. In a matter of 5 days we had seen all kinds of people. People who could go out of their way to help us, people who were selfish and money minded , people who were chickening away from responsibilities, one incident as this will give away everyones real self. The Indigo airlines employees stayed back after their shift had got over, just so that we could still include the coffin in the 6.30am flight.  They gave us the contact of the Coffin guy who makes Airlines quality coffin. I called the man at 5am disturbing his sleep. He was cursing for waking him up. I asked him to replace the coffin, he said he will come at 7am! I said flight is at 6.30 and he has to come immediately. He said he will charge extra for that.We agreed for that as well. He said Coffin alone costs 12k. We said we are fine with that. And finally he said do you have some one with you (men) or he should get some helpers to move the body. I didn’t want these boys to be troubled again moving the body, hence I said he better gets some boys.  He said we will have to bare the charges for the guy who would come to move the body from one Coffin to another!! We agreed. Meanwhile we had lost our mind. We went to the Cargo lounge of Indigo where not a single person was around and we three  just stood in a circle holding hands. We could sense that her presence was around, but none of us said even a single word. We cried that she is not willing to go back home! We prayed and requested her not to be so adamant. We knew that she was there around. Her presence was so obvious there. We almost decided on taking a help of a priest and do her final rites since Manali was her most favourite place and her destiny was it.But we also knew that we were not the right people to do the rituals. We came down and then touched her coffin and prayed her to go home and be sent rightfully.  We decided that, untill she reaches home we will not even have water. We had not booked our flight tickets back to Bangalore. We were not sure how long all this would take. We decided we will book Bangalore tickets only after she reaches her home in Bangalore.  At around 5.30, this man came in a jeep with the coffin and he was alone! He was asking Sujit and Niranjan to move her body again! Again this time, these boys went to help and found that there were flies also inside the coffin now! The Indigo guys who had  stayed back post their shift quickly did the paper work and put the coffin into the flight just on time.!. Once we were sure that the flight took off, we booked our flight to Bangalore at 11.30 am through one of Sujits friends. We then went to passenger side of the airport and waited.  After we boarded the flight , we got another thought!! How to face the parents. We could not muster the courage to face them. What to tell them? Their dear daughter who went to witness the splendour of white mountains decided to stay there! As we took a cab from Airport to her flat in Bangalore, the fear and anxiety started to increase. We were all devastated. Same clothes since 7-8 days since we were on trek and had not changed, we had not seen ourselves in those days. As soon as we reached, Usha came and hugged, my legs almost collapsed, there were no words to console a friend who had lost her loving sister, her parents were on the diwan, totally shattered, eyes shooting blood of all the crying since 4 days. They wished and thought she would be back, with some injury or hurt , but she would be back. She came back in a coffin, all wrapped in white cloth! Alas! They could not even see her face for the last time. They were so understanding and practical even in that state! They asked us not to share anything if it hurt! But it was our duty to tell them! No one else knew the sequence of events that happened.

It was not a small thing to take. Everyone was shocked. This was not expected for a trekker who had done more than 15 Himalayan treks and one of the toughest Himalayan Cycling Expedition.She was an avid trekker, she was born to explore as many mountains as she could. As she always said "I miss the white mountains so much when I have not trekked the Himalayas for long", she belonged there!
Loss of a friend is something unforgettable. Every small thing related to her, places and pictures remind us of her. We don’t say anything to show how much we miss her, because deep down we know, she has reached the place she was destined to. And how many get to go peacefully in the arms of those vast majestic white mountians? Is not it a dream and destiny of a true mountaineer? 

Vani Maradi - "One true Mountaineer "!












Saturday, July 2, 2016

Love is everywhere

That special someone about whom I always take pride in talking. She is one of very few women I know, who is worth mentioning. I have been longing to write about her, and today finally I take the privilege of writing about her.

Meet Mrs Bharati, a caretaker who worked at a ladies PG. Those days when we lived there and met this amazing lady, we witnessed a power packed hero with great energy, always smiling and she is an epitome of honesty. She worked in the same PG for 7 years. She was then 62-63 years old and single handedly would manage the entire PG hosting 50 girls.. The only reason I moved to that PG then was the amazing home-like food taste. The day I went to enquire, I was offered dinner, and I swear no PG provides that tasty a food. Apart from cooking amazing food, she also did all the chores of the PG which was 3 stories large for a salary of 6500 rupees!

Bharti Aunty was never just a care taker for us. She is a woman with mother’s heart and she bestowed us with unconditional love. Whoever has lived in that PG during her time will not disagree to my previous statement. She would prepare really mild spiced food for some of us who could not have spicy food, keep apart food for those who would came late from work and give real warm milk just before going to bed. It was hard to believe we lived in a PG! Its always so comforting when someone awaits you and makes sure you ate well and slept! Many times she has called me on my cellphone when am partying late night, just to make sure I am fine…
Very often, on Sundays we would get food from outside, watch TV, chat till late and have a very late lunch. After which all would sleep for a while. Imagine rainy evenings, you are sleeping post lunch and just when you wake up there is Tea waiting for you. I can never forget those days when Bharti Aunty would wake us up gently offering hot cup of tea.

If anybody was unwell, she would personally make real light food, warm it and get it to our rooms. Not only me, my other roomies also have witnessed her selfless love for all of us.

After my accident, when I returned to Bangalore, she could not see my pain and I saw tears in her eyes! She shouted at me rightfully asking me not to indulge in any adventures that could hurt me. Her concern was genuine, but she was no one for me!!!

But nevertheless, straight trees are cut first, honest people are hurt the most. This woman who would remember and return even 35 rupees change for each of us for what we pay for milk, one who would go to K R Market in her age to get grocery and vegetables for less so as to save money for PG owner was accused of stealing and minting money! It was that day, she sat in a chair crying and it was so devastating to see an elderly woman cry! After having done all that for her employer, she was accused and verbally abused. She decided that day to quit her job. We all stood by her and insisted she should stay. But she had made her mind, hence we bid her a farewell and wished her a peaceful retirement. Even after which, she was ready to cook food for us from her home and send it with her son in law !! We fondly refused that offer.

Today she visited me ,my home after a very long time.(About 4 years)
She is still the same , caring, loving and warm. We are blessed to have met Bharti Aunty, we will always be fond of her , like she is of us.  She is a celebrity for us.



Thursday, June 30, 2016

ಭ್ರಮೆ

ಬೆಂಗಳೂರಿನ ಟ್ರಾಫಿಕ್ ಪರಿಧಿ ದಾಟಿ, ಮೈಸೂರಿನ ಕಡೆಗೆ , ಬೆಂಗಳೂರು ವಿಶ್ವವಿದ್ಯಾಲಯದ ಆವರಣದಲ್ಲಿ, "ಪದ" ಹಾಗೂ "ಕನ್ನಡ ಮತ್ತು ಸಂಸ್ಕೃತಿ ಇಲಾಖೆ" ವತಿಯಿಂದ ಪ್ರತಿ ಬುಧವಾರ ನಡೆಯುವ "ಕನ್ನಡ ಚಿಂತನೆ ಮತ್ತು ಸಾಂಸ್ಕೃತಿಕ ಕಾರ್ಯಕ್ರಮ" ವನ್ನು ಆಸ್ವಾದಿಸುವ ಭಾಗ್ಯ ಜೂನ್ ೨೯ರಂದು ನನ್ನದಾಯಿತು. ಒಂದೇ ಸಮನೆ ನಿಲ್ಲದೆ ಸುರಿಯುತ್ತಿದ್ದ ಮಳೆ, ವಿಶ್ವವಿದ್ಯಾಲಯದ ಹಚ್ಚ ಹಸಿರು ಆವರಣ , ಮೈ ಮರೆಸಿದ ಖ್ಯಾತ ಜಾನಪದ ಗಾಯಕ "ಶ್ರೀ ಶಂಕರ ಭಾರತೀಪುರ" ಅವರ ಜಾನಪದ ಗಾನ, ಮುಂದೆ ಬರುವ ನಾಟಕ "ಭ್ರಮೆ"ಗೆ ನಮ್ಮನೆಲ್ಲ ಸಜ್ಜು ಮಾಡುವಂತಿತ್ತು. ಇಷ್ಟು ದೂರ ಕಲಾಗ್ರಾಮದಲ್ಲಿ ನಡೆಯುತ್ತಿದ್ದ ಈ ಕಾರ್ಯಕ್ರಮಕ್ಕೆ, ಮಳೆಯನ್ನು ಲೆಕ್ಕಿಸದೇ , ಕನ್ನಡ ನಾಟಕ ನೋಡಲು ಬಂದ ಪ್ರೇಕ್ಷಕರನ್ನು ಮೆಚ್ಚಲೇಬೇಕು. ಇಂತಹ ಅಭಿಮಾನಿಗಳಿಂದಲೇ ಇಂದಿಗೂ ನಮ್ಮ ಶ್ರೀಮಂತ ಸಾಹಿತ್ಯ ಉತ್ತುಂಗದಲ್ಲಿರುವುದು.

ಭ್ರಮೆ :



ಭೂತವೋ? , ದೆವ್ವವೋ ? , ಅಥವಾ ಹಿರಿ ಸ್ಟೇಷನ್ ಮಾಸ್ಟರ್ "ರಂಗಣ್ಣ"ನ ಭ್ರಮೆಯೋ? ಅದೊಂದು ಧ್ವನಿ, ಮತ್ತೆ ಸ್ಟೇಷನ್ ಟೆಲೆಗ್ರಾಫ್ ತಂತಿ ಮಾಡುವ "ಕಟ ಕಟ ", ರಂಗಣ್ಣನಿಗೆ ಮಾತ್ರ ಕೇಳುವ ಫೋನ್ ಕರೆ, ಮತ್ತೆ ಆ ಧ್ವನಿ " ಏ  ಅಲ್ಲಿ , ನೀನೇ , ಅಲ್ಲಿ !!" .... ಪ್ರತೀ ಸಲ ರಂಗಣ್ಣನ ಕಿವಿಗೆ ಈ ಶಬ್ದಗಳು ಬಿದ್ದ ಕೂಡಲೇ ರಂಗಣ್ಣ  ಹೆದರಿ ಕಂಗಾಲಾಗುವನು ! ಆ ಶಬ್ದಗಳು, ಆ ಕರೆ , ಮುಂದೆ ಆಗುವ ದೊಡ್ಡ ಅನಾಹುತದ ಸೂಚನೆ ! ಆ ಮುಖ ತೋರದ , ಸುರಂಗದ ಆಚೆಯಿಂದ ಕೂಗುವ ಮನುಷ್ಯ , ಸಾವಿನ ಸೂಚನೆ ನೀಡುವ ರಾಯಭಾರಿ, ಹೀಗೆ ಆದಾಗ ಪ್ರತಿ ಸಲವೂ ಒಂದು ಅಪಘಾತ - ಸಾವು ಖಂಡಿತ !! ... ರಂಗಣ್ಣನ ಚಡಪಡಿಕೆ ತೋಡಿಕೊಳ್ಳಲು ಯಾರು ಇಲ್ಲ , ಆಫೀಸಿಗೆ ಹೇಳಲು ಯಾವ ಸಾಕ್ಷಿಗಳು ಇಲ್ಲ , ಕೆಲಸ ಕಳೆದು ಕೊಂಡರೆ ಮುಂದೇನು ಎನ್ನುವ ಭಯ.

ಆಗಂತುಕನೊಬ್ಬ ಸ್ಟೇಷನ್ನಿಗೆ ಬಂದಾಗ, ರಂಗಣ್ಣ ತನ್ನ ತೊಳಲನ್ನು ಹೇಳಿಕೊಳ್ಳುತ್ತಾನೆ ! ಮುಂದೇನಾಗುವುದೋ ತಿಳಿಯಲು "ಭ್ರಮೆ" ನೋಡಿ ...




Wednesday, June 8, 2016

ಅಜ್ಜಿ ಧೀರ್ಘಾಯುಷಿ



ಕೆಲವೊಮ್ಮೆ ಮನೆಯಲ್ಲಿನ ಅಜ್ಜಿ ಅಜ್ಜಂದಿರು ತಮ್ಮ ವಿಪರೀತ ವರ್ತನೆಯಿಂದ ತಲೆ ಬಿಸಿ ಮಾಡಿದ್ದುಂಟೆ? ವಟ ವಟ ಎಂದು ಮಾತಾಡುತ್ತಾ , ಎಲ್ಲ ಚರ್ಚೆಗಳಲ್ಲೂ ತಮ್ಮ ತರ್ಕ ಮುಂದಿಟ್ಟು  ಹೊಸ ಪೀಳಿಗೆ ಮತ್ತು ತಮ್ಮ ನಡುವಿನ ಮಹಾ ಮಹಾ ಅಂತರವನ್ನು ಸ್ಪಷ್ಟ ಪಡಿಸುವರೆ? ಹೀಗೊಂದು ಅಜ್ಜಿ  ನಮ್ಮೆಲ್ಲರಿಗೂ ಸಮೀಪದಲ್ಲಿದ್ದಾರೆ. ನಮಗೆ ಸ್ವಂತ ಅಜ್ಜಿಯಲ್ಲ , ನಮ್ಮ ಅಕ್ಕನ ಅತ್ತೆ. ವಯಸ್ಸು ೭೨.  ಅವರ ಕಾಲದಲ್ಲಿ ತುಂಬಾ ಸುಂದರಿ . ಈಗಲೂ ಮುದ್ದು ಮುದ್ದು. ಕರಾವಳಿ ಕಡೆ ಸೌಂದರ್ಯ ಕೇಳಬೇಕೆ? ಮಹಾನ್ ಮಡಿವಂತೆ . ನಾ ಚಿಕ್ಕವಳಿದ್ದಾಗಿನ ನೆನಪು, ಊರಿಗೆ ರಜೆಗೆಂದು ಹೋದಾಗಲೆಲ್ಲಾ , ಅಪ್ಪಿ ತಪ್ಪಿ ಬಹಿಷ್ಟರಾದ ಹೆಂಗಸರನ್ನು ಅಕಸ್ಮಾತ್ತಾಗಿ ಮುಟ್ಟಿದರೆ ಮುಗಿಯಿತು ಕಥೆ. ಒಂದು ಕಲ್ಪನಾ ರೇಖೆ ಎಳೆದಂತೆ ಊಹಿಸಿಕೊಂಡು , ಬಾವಿ , ಕೊಟ್ಟಿಗೆ ಯಾವ ಗೋಡೆಯನ್ನು ಮುಟ್ಟದೆ ನೇರ ಮನೆಯಿಂದ ಬಹು ದೂರ ಇರುವ ಸ್ನಾನದ ಮನೆಗೆ ಹೋಗಿ ಅಲ್ಲಿಯೂ ಒಲೆ - ಮಡಕೆ ಏನೂ ಮುಟ್ಟದೆ ಸ್ನಾನ ಮಾಡಿ ಹಾಗೆ ನಿರ್ವಾಣ ಓಡಿ ಬಂದು ಬಟ್ಟೆ ಬದಲಿಸಬೇಕು(ನಮ್ಮ ಈಗಿನ ವಯಸ್ಸು ಕಲ್ಪಿಸಿಕೊಳ್ಳಬೇಡಿ ) . ಪ್ರತಿ ಸಾರಿ ಇದೊಂದು ಆಟವೇ ಆಗುತ್ತಿತ್ತು ನಮಗೆ . ಮತ್ತವರು ಮಾಡಿದ ಅಡುಗೆ ರುಚಿ ! ಅದೆಂಥ ಮೃಷ್ಟಾನ್ನ ಭೋಜನ .  ಅಂದಿನ ದಿನಗಳಲ್ಲಿ ಮಿಕ್ಸಿ , ಗ್ರೈಂಡರ್ ಕಾಣದ ಕೈ , ಅರೆಗಲ್ಲಿನ ಮೇಲೆ ನುಣ್ಣಗೆ ರುಬ್ಬಿ , ಒಲೆಯನ್ನು ಊದಿ ಊದಿ ಮಾಡುತ್ತಿದ್ದ ಅಡುಗೆಯ ರುಚಿ ಅಸಾಧಾರಣ!



ಚಿಕ್ಕ ವಯಸ್ಸಿನಲ್ಲೇ ಒಂದಾದ ಮೇಲೊಂದು ಆಘಾತಗಳನ್ನು ಅನುಭವಿಸಿರುವ ಹಿರಿ ಜೀವ ! ಇರುವ ಒಬ್ಬನೇ ಮಗ , ನಂತರ ಸೊಸೆ , ಗಂಡ ಹೀಗೆ ಎಲ್ಲರೂ ವಿಧಿ ಪರವಶರಾಗಿ ಕೊನೆಗೆ ಒಬ್ಬ ಮಗಳು ಮತ್ತು ೪ ಮೊಮ್ಮಕ್ಕಳನ್ನು ಬಿಟ್ಟರೆ ವಾರಗಿತ್ತಿಯರು ಮತ್ತವರ ಸಂಸಾರ ಇರುವ ಒಂದು ದೊಡ್ಡ ಮನೆ. ಇಷ್ಟೇ ಅಜ್ಜಿಯ ಆಸ್ತಿ . ನೋಡಿಕೊಳ್ಳಲು ಆಗದೆ ಇದ್ದ ಆಕಳುಗಳನ್ನೆಲ್ಲ ಮಾರಿಬಿಟ್ಟಿದ್ದರು .. ಮೊಮ್ಮಕ್ಕಳೆಲ್ಲ ಬೆಳೆದು, ನೌಕರಿ ಸೇರಿ , ಬೆಂಗಳೂರಿನಲ್ಲಿ ಮನೆ ಮಾಡಿ ಕರೆಸಿಕೊಂಡಿದ್ದರು .
ಇಲ್ಲಿನ ಜೀವನಕ್ಕೆ ಹೊಂದಿಕೊಳ್ಳುವುದು ಕಷ್ಟವಾದರೂ ಹೇಗೋ ನಡೆಸಿಕೊಂಡು ಹೋಗುತ್ತಿದ್ದರು ...

ಅಂದೊಮ್ಮೆ ಮನೆಯಲ್ಲೇ ಒಂದು ಸಣ್ಣ ಅಪಘಾತ ! ಅಜ್ಜಿ ಕೂತಲ್ಲಿಂದ ಬಿದ್ದು ಕೈ ಮುರಿದುಕೊಂಡು ಬಿಟ್ಟರು. ಮನೆಯಲ್ಲಿ ಕೊನೆಯ ಮೊಮ್ಮಗಳನ್ನು ಬಿಟ್ಟರೆ ಇನ್ನು ಯಾರು ಇಲ್ಲ.
ಹಾಗೆ ಹೀಗೆ ಮಾಡಿ ಅಂಬುಲೆನ್ಸ್ ಕರೆಯಿಸಿ ಅಜ್ಜಿಯನ್ನು ಆಸ್ಪತ್ರೆಗೆ ಸೇರಿಸಲಾಯಿತು. ಅಜ್ಜಿಗೆ ಪೆಟ್ಟು ಬಿದ್ದ ಕಾರಣ ಪಾರ್ಶ್ವವಾಯು ಆಯಿತು. ಆಕೆಯ ಮುಖದ ಎಡ ಭಾಗ ಸಂಪೂರ್ಣ ದುರ್ಬಲವಾಗಿತ್ತು. ರಾತ್ರಿಯಾದರೂ ಯಾವುದಕ್ಕೂ ಪ್ರತಿಕ್ರಿಯಿಸುತ್ತಿರಲಿಲ್ಲ . ಡಾಕ್ಟರ್ ಮನೆಯವರನ್ನೆಲ್ಲ ಕರೆಯಿಸಿಬಿಡಿ ಎಂದು ಬಿಟ್ಟರು. ಮನೆ ತುಂಬಾ ಓಡಾಡಿಕೊಂಡು ಚೈತನ್ಯದಿಂದ ಇರುತ್ತಿದ್ದ ಅಜ್ಜಿಯನ್ನು ಈ ಸ್ತಿತಿಯಲ್ಲಿ ನೋಡಿ ಕನಿಕರವಾಯಿತು. ICU ನಲ್ಲಿ , ಆಕ್ಸಿಜನ್ ಮಾಸ್ಕ್ ಹಾಕಿ , ECG ಕೊಟ್ಟು monitor ಮಾಡುತ್ತಿದ್ದ ಆ  ಚಿತ್ರ ನೆನೆಸಿಕೊಂಡರೆ ಬೇಜಾರೆನಿಸುತ್ತದೆ. ಎಲ್ಲರೂ ನೆಂಟರಿಷ್ಟರಿಗೆ ಫೋನ್ ಮಾಡಿ ಸುದ್ದಿ ತಲುಪಿಸಲು ಶುರು ಮಾಡಿದರು.
ಆಸ್ಪತ್ರೆಯಲ್ಲಿ ಒಬ್ಬರು ಉಳಿದು ಮಿಕ್ಕಿದವರೆಲ್ಲ ಮನೆಗೆ ಬಂದೆವು . ಸುಮಾರು ೪ ಗಂಟೆಗೆ ಮತ್ತೆ ಅಣ್ಣನ ಫೋನ್ ಬಂತು . ಅಜ್ಜಿಯ BP ಒಮ್ಮೆಲೇ ಕ್ಷೀಣಿಸಿದೆ ಎಂದು. ಯಾರೂ ಮಲಗಿರಲಿಲ್ಲ , ಮತ್ತೆ ಎಲ್ಲರು ಒಳಗೊಳಗೇ ಬಿಕ್ಕುತ್ತಾ ಇದ್ದ ದೇವರು ದಿಂಡಿರನ್ನೆಲ್ಲ ಪ್ರಾರ್ಥಿಸಿದೆವು. ನಿಜವಾದ ಪ್ರೀತಿ Airport ನಲ್ಲಿ ವಿದಾಯ ಹೇಳುವಾಗ ಕಾಣುತ್ತದೆ  ಮತ್ತು ನಿಜವಾದ ಪ್ರಾರ್ಥನೆ  ಆಸ್ಪತ್ರೆಯ ಗೋಡೆಗಳಿಗೆ ಕೇಳಿಸುತ್ತದೆ ಎಂದು ಕೇಳಿದ್ದೆ. ಅದು ಇಂದು ಗುರುತಾಯಿತು. ಸ್ವಲ್ಪ ನಿದ್ದೆ ಹತ್ತುತ್ತಲೇ ಮತ್ತೆ ಎದ್ದು ಆಸ್ಪತ್ರೆಗೆ ಧಾವಿಸಿದೆವು.




ಪವಾಡಗಳ ಬಗ್ಗೆ ಕೇಳಿದ್ದೆ, ಆದರೆ ಎಂದೂ ನಂಬಿರಲಿಲ್ಲ. ಅಂದಿನ ದಿನ ಪ್ರಾರ್ಥನೆಗಳಿಗೂ ಶಕ್ತಿ ಇದೆ ಎಂದೆನಿಸಿತು. ಇಷ್ಟು ಓದಿ ಕಲಿತು , ಮುನ್ನಡೆದಿದ್ದರು ಮನದಾಳದಲ್ಲಿ ಒಂದು ನಂಬಿಕೆ ಗಟ್ಟಿಯಾಯಿತು. ಪ್ರಾರ್ಥನೆಗಳು ಫಲಿಸುತ್ತವೆ!  ಹೌದು !

ಅಜ್ಜಿ ಬೆಳ್ಳಾನ ಬೆಳಗ್ಗೆ ಎದ್ದು, ನೆನ್ನೆ ಏನೂ ನಡೆದಿಲ್ಲ ಎಂಬಂತೆ ಪಿಳಿ ಪಿಳಿ ಕಣ್ಣು ಬಿಟ್ಟುಕೊಂಡು ICU ಸುತ್ತ ಒಮ್ಮೆ ನೋಡಿ , ನರ್ಸ್ ನ ಕರೆದು , "ಏಯ್ ನನಗೊಂದು ಲೋಟ ಚಾ ತಂದು ಕೊಡ್ತೀಯೇನೆ ?" ಅಂದಿದ್ದಾರೆ !! ನಮಗೆಲ್ಲ ಅಪಾರ ಸಂತೋಷ ಮತ್ತು ನಗು. ಒಬ್ಬರಾದ ಮೇಲೆ ಒಬ್ಬರಂತೆ ಅವರನ್ನ ಭೇಟಿ ಮಾಡ್ಲಿಕ್ಕೆ ಹೋದೆವು. ಹಿಂದಿನ ದಿನ ನಡೆದ ಸಂಗತಿಯ ಕೊಂಚ ಅರಿವೂ ಇರದ ಅಜ್ಜಿ ನನ್ನನ್ನು ನೋಡಿ "ನೀ ಯಾವಾಗ ಮೈಸೂರಿಗೆ ಬಂದ್ಯೇ?" ಅಂದರು. "ಅಜ್ಜಿ ಇದು ಮೈಸೂರಲ್ಲ ಬೆಂಗಳೂರು" ಎಂದೆ .
ಅಜ್ಜಿ ಮತ್ತೆ ICU ಸುತ್ತ ನೋಡಿ, "ಇಲ್ಲಿ ಮೇಲೊಂದು ರೂಮು ಮತ್ತು ಕೆಳಗೊಂದು ರೂಮಿದೆ , ಬರೀ ಮೆಟ್ಟಿಲುಗಳೇ , ನನ್ನ ಕೈಲಿ ಹತ್ತೊಕಾಗಲ್ಲ" ಎಂದರು ... ಏನೋ ಹುಟ್ಟಂದಿನಿಂದ ಈ ಆಸ್ಪತ್ರೆ ನೋಡಿರುವ ಹಾಗೆ..ನಾ ನಕ್ಕೆ , ನೆನ್ನೆಯಿಂದ stretcher ಮೇಲೆ ಇದ್ದು, ಲೋಕದ ಪರಿವೆ ಇಲ್ಲದೆ ಬಿದ್ದಿದ್ದ ಅಜ್ಜಿಗೆ ಭ್ರಮೆಯೇನೋ ಎಂದು. ಆದರೆ ನಿಜವಾಗಿಯೂ basement ನಲ್ಲಿ ಲ್ಯಾಬ್ ಮತ್ತು ಮೇಲೆ ವಾರ್ಡ್ಗಳು ಇದ್ದವು ಅಲ್ಲಿ! ಮತ್ತೆ ನನ್ನನ್ನು ಉದ್ದೇಶಿಸಿ "ನೆನ್ನೆ ಮೆಂತೆ ಇಡ್ಲಿ ಹಿಟ್ಟು ರುಬ್ಬಿಟ್ಟು ಬಂದಿದ್ದೇನೆ , ಬಿಸಿ ಬಿಸಿ ಇಡ್ಲಿ ಮಾಡಿಕೋ , ಬೆಲ್ಲ ಸ್ವಲ್ಪ ಹಾಕು, ಹಸಿವಾಗಿರಬೇಕಲ್ಲ ನಿನಗೆ " ಎಂದರು .. ನನ್ನ ಕಣ್ಣಲ್ಲಿ ನೀರಾಡಿತು. ಇಷ್ಟು ನೋವು ತಿನ್ನುತ್ತ ಮಲಗಿದ್ದಾರೆ , ಕೈ ಮೂಳೆ ಮುರಿದಿದೆ, ಕೈ ಎಲ್ಲ ನೀಲಿ ನೀಲಿ ಆಗಿ ಸೊಟ್ಟಗಾಗಿದೆ , ಉಸಿರಾಡಲು ಯಂತ್ರ ಅಳವಡಿಸಿದ್ದಾರೆ , ಆದರು ನಾನು ತಿನ್ನಲಿಲ್ಲ ಎಂದು ಯೋಚನೆ!
ಅದು ಅಲ್ಲದೆ , ಅವರ ನೆನಪಿನ ಶಕ್ತಿ ಅದ್ಭುತ ! ನಿಜವಾಗಿಯೂ ಹಿಂದಿನ ದಿನ ಮೆಂತೆ ಇಡ್ಲಿ ಹಿಟ್ಟನ್ನು ರುಬ್ಬಿಟ್ಟು ಕೂತಾಗ ಆದ ಅಪಘಾತ ಅದು..!
 ಅಲ್ಲಿ ಕುಳಿತ ನರ್ಸ್ ಮತ್ತು ಬಾಯ್ ರನ್ನು ಉದ್ದೇಶಿಸಿ "ನನ್ನಿಂದ ನಿಮಗೆಲ್ಲ ಎಷ್ಟು ತೊಂದರೆ ಆಯಿತು ಅಲ್ಲವೇ?" ಎಂದರು . ನರ್ಸ್ ಹತ್ತಿರ ಬಂದು ಮಾತನಾಡಿಸಿದರು . ನಾವೆಲ್ಲಾ ಪದೇ ಪದೇ ICU ಕಡೆ ಹೋಗಲಿಲ್ಲ . ಅಜ್ಜಿ ಎಲ್ಲರನ್ನು ಮಾತನಾಡಿಸಿ ಸುಸ್ತಾಗುತ್ತಾರೆಂದು.

೪-೫ ದಿನ ಬಿಟ್ಟು ಅಜ್ಜಿ ಡಿಸ್ಚಾರ್ಜ್ ಆದರು. ಅಲ್ಲಿದ್ದ ನರ್ಸ್ ಬಾಯ್ ಎಲ್ಲರು ಅಜ್ಜಿಯನ್ನು ಕಳಿಸಿಕೊಟ್ಟು, ಎಂತಹ ನಗು ಮುಖದ ಅಜ್ಜಿ ಎಂದು ಖುಷಿ ಪಟ್ಟರು.

ಅಜ್ಜಿ ಈಗ ಚೇತರಿಸಿಕೊಳ್ಳುತ್ತಾ ಇದ್ದಾರೆ . ಒಂದು ಸಣ್ಣ ಶೀತ , ನೆಗಡಿಯಾದರೆ , ಜ್ವರ ಬಂದರೆ , ಜೀವವೇ ಹೋದ ಹಾಗೆ ಆಡುವ ಕೆಲವರಿಗೆ, ಸಾವನ್ನು ಗೆದ್ದು ಬಂದ ಈ ಅಜ್ಜಿ ಎಂತಹ ಅಪರೂಪದ ಉದಾಹರಣೆ! ಇನ್ನು ನೂರು ಕಾಲ , ಸ್ವಸ್ಥವಾಗಿ ಆರೋಗ್ಯಪೂರ್ಣವಾಗಿ ಬದುಕಿ ಸೆಂಚುರಿ ಬಾರಿಸಲೆಂದು ಆಶಿಸುತ್ತಾ ನನ್ನ ಬರವಣಿಗೆಗೆ ಸದ್ಯ ಇತಿ ಶ್ರೀ ಹೇಳುತ್ತಿದ್ದೇನೆ ...







Tuesday, May 24, 2016

A Dream Trek to KalluGhati and Dabbe Waterfalls (Sharavathi Valley)





The moment I saw this post on the Bangalore Hikers Webpage, there came a bright smile with a musical memory of our own Dr. Rajkumar singing “ಶರಾವತಿ ಕನ್ನಡ ನಾಡ ಭಾಗಿರಥಿ , ಪುಣ್ಯವಂತರು ಬರ್ತಾರಿಲ್ಲಿ ದಿನಂಪ್ರತಿ !” (Sharavathi is the Bhagirathi river for Karnataka) forcing me to deny all reasons to say No for this trek.
Amidst the beautiful Sahyadri range, this massive river running in a valley beautifying the already beautiful western Ghats!
Rich in flora and fauna and the villagers so humble and friendly, this beauty of Malenadu has no words to describe its goodness. Dating back to olden days of Kuvempu, Shimoga Subbanna , Dr. G S Shivarudrappa and so on, Malenadu has borne and seen the best of Kannada Literature / Music days.

Feeling immensely proud for having done this trek recently, here I am going to pen down my experience at the trek and the best things which made this trek a memorable one.
Forest Dept MileStone

Started from Bangalore on the 20th of May 16, a group of 12 individuals, some already familiar with other members and some first timers, we, gathered at our common pickup point – Majestic. There was huge traffic because it was a Friday evening, which caused a 30 minutes delay .  We left Bangalore at 10.30 in a Tempo traveler. The orientation for the trek occurred in a petrol pump while the TT was devouring diesel.  The Juicy part of the orientation was a box of home made gajar ka halwa prepared by Santosh, the co-founder of Bangalore Hikers. Post orientation we left to out respective positions inside the TT and unlike other trek drives, this one was comparatively quieter one!

Day 1 : 21 May 2016

We reached Sagara town in the morning by 6 am and got into the IB to get freshened up. This is where we met our dear Guide the tiny but loud (read as Very talkative) Sandeep. We did not waste much time in freshening up and started darting towards the hotel to have breakfast.
Truly, madly in Love with Mangalore Buns, I made the best of my breakfast and devoured it!!

We bought grocery for lunch and dinner for next day and started from Sagara towards Bhatkala in the TT. We crossed Muppane forest area and proceeded further around the Sharavathi Wildlife Sanctuary.
Unable to recollect exact village name, but were close towards Sigandur.

This is the first time I trekked along the river and it was quite an experience. When we started first , there were some school children standing on the bund and watching us (read fools) walking on the dried river stream where as there was a perfectly good road running parallel to it. I asked a child prankfully “alli road idyene? (is there a road)”, she laughed loud and said “ide (it is there!)” and am sure they all took us to be fools taking tough rocky trail when there is a perfectly fine road along. After about 300-400m, the stream took a deviation into the forest.
That was when the feel of trekking started. Slowly sun started rising to welcome us to the mid –noon. There was scarce water in the stream. While we parted ways (Same fast trekkers VS Slow trekkers saga!) , we hiked a small extra distance to witness a beautiful grassland above this Valley! There was a good steep climb of around 500m in length and since the forest was virgin, there was no sight of trail!
Sandeep came looking for us and then we hiked down and trekked a bit more to reach our lunch spot. It was only about 12.30pm, we had lunch , took bath and rested there for a while to continue our trek to Kallu Ghati.
Small stream on the way...

Summer is a good time to do these river treks , but there was very little water at the kallu ghati falls! Lot of us were disappointed, but nevertheless the beauty of the Valley and the stream gave us a relaxing pacification. Unfortunately, (or fortunately, I will tell you why), there was no flat surface to pitch a tent on the huge rocky terrain and we settled for camping by the stream since the next place (Dabbe Falls) was about 1 km steep hike and then again total 5kms by trek. Since it was already late and It was getting dark, we agreed upon sleeping on the rocks.

We spent the evening playing Bluff and cleaning the rock making rocky bed, and who would dare to miss mentioning FOOD ANTAKSHARIIIII!!!! That is the star game of every trek (mostly)
It started real clean with DECENT food and shooted up, got really nasty with “Susu with lime” and “Gomutra” … This time also it was a fun and innovative group who discovered new dishes for antakshari within a snap of a finger!

We had our dinner and some went to sleep post dinner. But I was not getting sleep and for good.

At around 1 am, the moon was at the zenith of its beauty since it was a Full Moon Day (Guru Purab) and I swear to God there could not be a serene beauty as such with stream gleaming with silver moon light and the melody of flowing river! One has to witness and live this enticing moment once in lifetime. At certain places where moonlight could penetrate, it made astounding patterns on the dark trees. For a moment it was giving an illusion of someone showing a torch. That bright was the moonlight!! And on the left side of the Valley where the palm trees made a step like arrangement, moon light spread itself making it look like a stairway to heaven! Or was the moon planning to get down the stairs to take a shower in the stream?
I wish I was a poet to glorify the beauty of that evening. I wish there were words enough to ponder and explain that exact feeling one will go through on seeing such a magic of nature.
This probably is only one tenth of what my feelings were seeing that glorious beauty.
We live only once and if one hasn’t witnessed beauty of nature at any point of time and awed at it, I feel really sorry for that person…

Day 2 : 22 May 2016

Next morning was a bright sunny morning! We were up by 6am and started getting freshened up to continue the trek. We ate our breakfast and packed bags to set the journey. We cleared up all that we dirtied, leaving no signs of Human Nuisance! Why am I making this point here is, if Nature has so many nice things to give us, we should not leave poison like Plastic, tins, glasses etc. which may be hazardous to the nature. If she has so much love and caring for us, we have no rights to ruin her beauty. So we made sure we made minimal damage(I am sure we did to some extent by intruding) before we left the place at 9am.

The next phase of the trek was awesome too. It is a perfect 80 degrees climb of about 1 kms length. It was very challenging as we had to climb with our backpacks and make way for ourselves holding some uprooted tree roots. An amazing experience for me of my lifetime. It was tough and very challenging to make groove to keep the feet, hold the root to gain momentum and fix the other feet to a higher level. It needs upper body strength and the whole team did wonderful job there by hiking it with no issues at all. After the vigorous climb was a moderate hike of about 5kms to the Dabbe Falls.
The whole trail was full of leeches and these leeches had their share of Bangalore Hikers Blood without any hesitation. This was that small favor we returned to the nature. I never kill a leech if it bites me. Trust me I gently remove and throw it aside. It doesn’t have to die!
For all the niceness I show towards the nature, there was this one angry Hornet which didn’t certainly like me! I realized that this Hornet was following me from a certain distance, and when it came in front of my face and went all around me once to make sure it has got the right target, it intelligently chose a highly inaccessible place on my body!!! No need to scratch your head a lot, it went and stung my hamstring!! I mean seriously? That is one place I cannot even see! I had severe radiating pain. It was so bad, I started abusing the Hornet! I shrieked out of pain. That hell of a pain I had never ever experienced in life. I cursed that insect to my heart and continued the trek.

We reached Manjappas home (I think its called Manjappas home only) at around 11.30 am and got rid of the bags after trekking 5kms. We took only few things like lunch, water and dry clothes as the way to the waterfall was very steep and dangerous to carry the backpacks.

We spent some more time at Manjappas’ and started towards the fall. There was another group (WORTH MENTIONING) of men who had carried food and BEVERAGES !! trust me they had carried alcohol to take to the fall.
We climbed down. This way was too steep and risky. The first slope was quite challenging and a straight 90 degrees drop of about 10ft without anything to hold on to (other than the far spread roots). We carefully got down this slope and after another 300m there was another. The best one was almost about 750m from the top and there was just a rope. This was rocky slope of 90 degrees with few grooves, hardly giving any grip. So, once has to hang his body lose, give a 70-80 degree angle to the slope and rappel down!! It was one of the best experiences!! We successfully made it to the base of the fall and only to be mesmerized by the awesomeness of the beauty called Dabbe Falls.!!! She is epitome of surprise and beauty mixed with melody.
She is a tall beauty of 253m (Source Internet) and even in summer she was full like a loving mother. The other group was already enjoying alcohol while we waited for them to give some way to sit under water. They were not troubling otherwise (we were two ladies in the group), and were decent enough to let us play In water after some time. Desperate were we to get into the water, we plunged and played and had a gala time at the pool made by the water. We ate our lunch, got ready for a group photo session (and of course solo sessions too!)

After series of photo-shoots, we set to leave from the waterfall. Lohit showed me a very tiny green snake at the small poodle of water and the shy snake started climbing the rock. I also unfortunately witnessed the leftovers of the beer –boys crap! They had thrown food and palm –leaves plates and BEER TINS. I request readers to follow some rules while going to such serene places. We have no rights to ruin this.

We took 30minutes time to climb and reach Manjappas place. Our dear friend Modi took hot water from their home and made amazing lemon tea which was just that thing needed at the moment. We packed, bid bye to Manjappa and started rest of the hike towards Hosagadde.
It was a 5km journey and we walked a mix of small hikes, streams, one or two houses, jeep tracks and a hell a lot of mango trees. The mangoes were ripe and no one seemed to care for these. We also found a treasure of a guava tree bearing fully ripe big guavas. We devoured like never before and continued walk to find few Date palms!!! How wonderful can it get?

We reached Hosagadde by 5pm and got into the TT which was waiting for us there.
We reached Sagara by 6pm, visited a nice restaurant serving Yummy dosa, Maddur Vade and Bhajji. We enjoyed our evening snacks with amazing tea. We bid a formal farewell to Sandeep our friendly, humorous guide and started to Bangalore.

We stopped at Shimoga for dinner and our formal feedback session for Bangalore Hikers. We got good feedback and some pointers on improvement side too from the participants including me. Since all were tired and sleepy from the trek, everyone dived into sleep after dinner.

We reached Bangalore at 4am from the most memorable, adventurous trek for 2016 monsoon.